Fathers day, mother’s day, love day…

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Why do you think we need all those reminders?

Marketers found out before the rest of the population that there was something missing and they created a product to satisfy this missing piece of the puzzle.

It is all very well organize: there is no family time or time to build relationship in our own houses because we need to work a lot to have houses that will contain all the things the society is telling us we need. But what happen with our health? With our relationships? With our development as human beings? With our children? They learn from us what is important and what is not. When money is our direction, money will remind us when to love and how. And money has many faces: cloths, cars, houses, status… 

Do you want to satisfy them or create  life in which you are able to remember by yourself those days?

Why?

Because if you realize, these days can be everyday. 

Everyday is THE DAY to give a hug to my partner, take him to a walk in the forest and share with him all the smiles in the world, jokes, caring, cuddling…

Everyday is THE DAY to support him in his development

Everyday is THE DAY to cook together or for each other

Everyday is THE DAY to call my mother and tell her I love her

Everyday is THE DAY to draw a picture with a big smile in it and write sentences that will make her smile

Everyday is THE DAY to talk soft and loving to my partner, even if we don’t agree in a subject

Everyday is THE DAY to offer a different point of view and work on it together

Everyday is THE DAY to build my relationship with the people I love, to care for them, support them, hug them, show them I love them and share with them my life.

Everyday is THE DAY to sing a song together: friends, partner…

Everyday is THE DAY to do silly things together that will make us smile (not on the expenses of others, always respecting everyone)

Everyday is THE DAY to help the ones we love develop and do new steps, overcome fears…

Everyday is THE DAY to overcome whatever will come with a smile and jokes.

Everyday is THE DAY for whatever you want to build in your life.

" I need a very big box to be able give the present to my father" A real present for every day

” I need a very big box to be able give the present to my father” A real present for every day

If your life means money, this is what you will have in your life. But check if the price for that is your life itself, because most of the times this is the price. 

With love,

Laura

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About lovesoulsandmusic

This blog is the story of how after many years of difficult and seemingly impossible relationships across the world I finally actually found the person I am living a real-love and always-in-movement and development relationship. Through my story I hope I can inspire others to know that you also can create a relationship where to find real joy and happiness. How and why I know that he is the person I will be with the rest of my life, and how you can know it too. And maybe, give you some hints about how I fell into traps that were leading me to desperation and in some situations also denigration, feeling attracted by men that will not bring me development and real love.

6 responses »

  1. So true and real those words are! I guess it is nice to have the “extra” effort, having very few around me who will go that extra mile, unless it is a special day. Waiting on my blog and in my life for a special man to do those nice things. My adult kids are great at letting me give them the gifts! They do cook for their “mama” once a week, though and if I want a plate to go, they do that! So, cannot complain!

  2. Dear Laura thanks for your insights. I wish a lot of people will read this blog and improve their lives.
    Every day is a special day !!
    Bety

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