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Fathers day, mother’s day, love day…

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Why do you think we need all those reminders?

Marketers found out before the rest of the population that there was something missing and they created a product to satisfy this missing piece of the puzzle.

It is all very well organize: there is no family time or time to build relationship in our own houses because we need to work a lot to have houses that will contain all the things the society is telling us we need. But what happen with our health? With our relationships? With our development as human beings? With our children? They learn from us what is important and what is not. When money is our direction, money will remind us when to love and how. And money has many faces: cloths, cars, houses, status… 

Do you want to satisfy them or create  life in which you are able to remember by yourself those days?

Why?

Because if you realize, these days can be everyday. 

Everyday is THE DAY to give a hug to my partner, take him to a walk in the forest and share with him all the smiles in the world, jokes, caring, cuddling…

Everyday is THE DAY to support him in his development

Everyday is THE DAY to cook together or for each other

Everyday is THE DAY to call my mother and tell her I love her

Everyday is THE DAY to draw a picture with a big smile in it and write sentences that will make her smile

Everyday is THE DAY to talk soft and loving to my partner, even if we don’t agree in a subject

Everyday is THE DAY to offer a different point of view and work on it together

Everyday is THE DAY to build my relationship with the people I love, to care for them, support them, hug them, show them I love them and share with them my life.

Everyday is THE DAY to sing a song together: friends, partner…

Everyday is THE DAY to do silly things together that will make us smile (not on the expenses of others, always respecting everyone)

Everyday is THE DAY to help the ones we love develop and do new steps, overcome fears…

Everyday is THE DAY to overcome whatever will come with a smile and jokes.

Everyday is THE DAY for whatever you want to build in your life.

" I need a very big box to be able give the present to my father" A real present for every day

” I need a very big box to be able give the present to my father” A real present for every day

If your life means money, this is what you will have in your life. But check if the price for that is your life itself, because most of the times this is the price. 

With love,

Laura

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Confessions from a blogger

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Hi all!

I want to share with you all my thoughts, because these thoughts have blocked me from writing in this blog. Have blocked me from sharing with you what I really love to share, my experience in life. Because I know that they can help many people to see that other life is possible.

I could start saying that… I am in a very very very busy period of my life. But as far as I see the future coming and the way I have decided to deal with my life, it will not change 🙂 So this excuse it is no more than that: an excuse.

The real reason is that I have had many thoughts related to the excellence of the blog. In the moment I saw the blog was starting to receive more visitors my mind started to be full of…

“I really need to give good stuff to this people! They are investing their time on my blog”

“I really need to prepare the posts well”

“My English… it is probably not so good. Probably people is feeling that I am not good in writting”

“I cannot be boring, I need to really do interesting posts to engage them from the begining!! There so many amazing bloggers!!”

Did it ever happen to you, blogger, writer, “sharer“, …?

It cannot continue like this.

This blog is my voice. A voice that is sharing with love her experience in life. In a life that before wasn’t that good at all. A voice that want to show to other people that they can be happier in their life’s , in their relationships, wit their kids… I am not going to let these discouraging voices to stop me writing what it can help to so many people.

I had even thoughts about sharing this with all of you, but it is time to continue my journey, go over them and show my presence with all my love here again. 

So I just declare to all who will read me that I am not ashamed if my English is not perfect, if the topics are not interesting enough or whatever else!

This is my voice: clear, loving, and strong. Sharing from my heart to all of you many of my experiences, intimacies and thoughts.

Because, at the end, what is perfection?

From my heart I feel that perfection is the reflection of the light that our souls bring to every creature. Perfection is constant development. Perfection is movement. Perfection is a smile, a respectful joke, a nice comment, a hand to someone who needs it, a protest against an injustice, a decision to love, a kiss, a hug… Surrounded by so many perfections, there is no place for any of these blocking thoughts 🙂

Thank you all for listening -reading,

With love,

Laura

PS: if someone feels like sharing something from their experiences in life wit their partners, kids, just in their lifes… I will be very glad to hear from you!!

 

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The Circle of Losing my Life by trying to find a real PARTNER

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I have spent most of my life single and when I was sharing my life with someone I had the “tendency” to choose the wrong ones. The ones who didn’t give me support, didn’t want to share the same direction, didn’t accept my strength, were trying to control me in different ways… Even though in many cases they were applying this control in such a subtle way that was almost impossible to notice it. So when I was in a relationship I was investing almost all my energy in making it work.

And the times I was single, I was spending all my energy in trying to find a partner.

I invite you to check

                                          “The Circle of Losing Our Lives through our Partnerships”

The circle or losing our lives...

Do you feel you are in any of these stages?

We are born with tones of energy –vital energy, I mean. Along our life when we find a partner that cannot contribute to our life in a deep level of development and we cannot contribute to their life in the same level of development, sooner or later we will feel that something is not working. Years and years will pass and we will see ourselves in a constant search and try like in a laboratory, trying to find the right formula, or in a relationship that can move from not that bad, just boring to drama partnership. In between there are many other options, most of them not very appealing.

The educational system, the media, the TV, the romantic movies… show again and again a fake picture of what is life as a couple, what is love… And even when we try not to believe what they say (which is an extra effort), it is so much in our blood that it is almost impossible not to be affected and directed by this pattern.

I invite you to look to your parents, the friends of your parents, the parents of your friends, inside your family… Look for couples or singles at their 50’s when they have lived their lives enough years to see how painful and frustrating is not to have side by side the right person. They have already created a family –in most of the cases- and at this point, their children don’t really want to spend a lot of time with their parents, family time and family meetings are something that is better not to have very often if they want to keep breathing, they –as partners- are tired of life, and trying to look for something that will bring some joy to their lives they are dreaming with having grandchildren… “For sure a baby will bring some smiles and warmth…” they think to themselves.

For many years I was observing closely different families that were part of my surrounding. I was looking for my dream of finding the SECRET for a HEALTHY family in which their members would really help each other, support each other, love each other and share a common development.

I couldn’t find it. Not even one of the families in my surrounding were deeply happy. Life is hard, many will think. It is more than that. It is not a matter of how hard is life.

It is a matter of learning. No one, ever, taught us how to build a relationship, how to develop with our partner, how to find out when is not a person for us, how to find the person that will match our hearts and souls.

And in this process of trying and trying and trying and trying our lives are passing and sooner or later we will not have the energy to build anything, to create anything new, to support anyone or to even try to find anyone anymore. And in this process we will finally release part of ourselves or even we will release completely ourselves. And this will be like disappearing, like not existing anymore.

Have you ever thought before how much is affecting us to find the right person?

But, how can we find them? If you already read some of my posts probably you will imagine the answer… if not, maybe now is a good moment to take some minutes and read them 😉 And if you prefer to wait a bit, in some days I will explain you my personal experience, that is also the experience of several of my friends.

Here you might find some answers 🙂  http://www.healaura.com/aura-blog

Thank you for reading me.

See you soon!

With love,

Laura

A “Simple” discussion… (Part 2)

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The same situation?

                                                                       A different approach?

Creating a new reality for both together

                                                                                  Let’s see together

Communication instead of persuation

                                                               Communication instead of persuasion

Looking at the big picture together

     Looking at the big picture together

Opening a new place where to try new things

                                                        Opening a new space where to try new things

For many people this second part can look like a representation of a couple that have a good relationship or even like the picture of a good day in a regular relationship. But if you look deeper into the situation you will see that in this second option about the same situation there are some significant differences:

  • CREATION: Both partners are ready to release their own ideas and look for an option that will help in the development of both. The reason is not because they are very good people. The reason is that they work as a unit of energy for the development of both. They know that both will win in such situation.
  • There is COMMUNICATION instead of persuasion, which almost 100% of the times imply manipulation.
  • FLEXIBILITY
  • OPENNESS to include any change if needed, any new option can be an option.
  • DEVELOPMENT: They decide to do an activity that will bring support and development to both of them instead of choosing a “spending-time activity”. This kind of activities direct the people to let the time pass in a more entertained way but don’t bring any support to their lives or any help to move their life forward. Our two lovely couple go further and look for something that will nurture their lives. And with this I  don’t mean that it has to be going to a museum or do “intellectual” activities. It doesn’t mean that at all. There are many activities like what I showed you some posts ago that can help both to develop and have good time together. You can read it in: Everything started with a long hair… 🙂
  • And much more!

One of the main things that makes a difference is that in this second comic there is CHANNELING. This channeling brought them in few moments alternatives they didn’t think about before about. Combinations that blew their minds up! Combinations directed to make them happier people, more smiley, more creative people…

Don’t you think that channeling is amazing? It is like having your own guide with you all the time, ready to help at any time. Ready to show you what you cannot see with your own eyes. And it is an ability that everybody can learn!

But I don’t want to convince you about anything, just share how the relationship approach, since I am able to connect with my aura has changed to better in a really significant way.

Now I create my relationship from very creative places day by day. There is always something new. Routine is a word that is not part of our relationship dictionary 🙂 (and this is also applicable to our intimate time… maybe this will be for another post 😉 )

Thank you for reading it!

With love,

Laura

PS: by the way, both comics are a real reflection of how things were solved and planned in my last relationships and now. The “Now” picture is the one related to channeling, the second part 🙂 and I would never want to change it for the first part of a Simple discussion…

A “Simple” discussion… (Part 1)

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In my past relationships I was “discussing” things with my partner all the time. The picture of this situations was more or less as I describe below…

In our couple life we are constantly making decisions: the plan for the weekend, the education of the kids, the way we will spend you vacation the clothes we want for our bed, the house that will buy or rent…

What happen when we don’t agree with what our partner brings or want?

Is that simple?

Is that simple?

1. After exposing our plans we try to convince one another and show how good is the idea we have. Most of the times this conversations, more or less intense, involve certain degree of manipulation. We are usually not aware of it. Manipulation is so much in our day by day that it doesn’t call our attention anymore when it sneaks in between our words.

I am sure you are gonna like it...

I am sure you are gonna like it…

2. After considering the scenario one yield and let the partners idea go ahead and be the “winner”. At least for this time, for this week…

“Ok, we will do your plan this time, but next week is my turn.” In the background many times the thought is: I don’t like to do it a t all, but I am willing to suffer for you… that intense is my love…”

And the winning’s partner thoughts can be something like: “my partner really loves me! He/she is willing to suffer for me! To give in his/her ideas! It is so romantic…” 

My Plan. I was sure he would like it...

My Plan

3. The Day D: The “winner” is not happy, cannot enjoy the day D because his/her partner is not enjoying. Both can feel something heavy is in the atmosphere even if the partner is trying his/her best to enjoy.

A new thought come the winning’s partner mind: “THE LOVE he feels for me might not be strong enough to make him enjoy just by being with me?”

His Plan

His Plan.

4. The week after: The new “winner” doesn’t enjoy either. His partner is not enjoying.

“Maybe our love is not that strong…”

“Maybe we need a break…”

“Maybe I need more time with my friends…”

“Maybe…”

I didn't find THE ONE yet...

I didn’t find THE ONE yet…

5. “Maybe…He is not the one”

“Maybe … She is not the one”

They stay in the same place they where, same plans… the partner once is now an ex-partner. And the idea is: He/she wasn’t the one.

Did you ver think in this situations that it might be that we don’t know how to create partnership?

. . . . . . . . . . . . . .

And again, we go back to an endless circle of loneliness.

We go back to the circle of endless searching for the RIGHT PARTNER, THE ONE.

We go back to the feeling of: what’s wrong with me? Why I cannot find a partner?

But did ever anyone teach you or show you how to find the right partner?

How to CREATE a healthy relationship?

How many people  in your surroundings have a healthy and supportive relationship with their partners?

My partner wants to contribute to this post by adding:

“So, what did we see here? Each person had their own plan of what to do, which in the end didn’t really work out for either of them in both cases.
Look at the bigger picture for a moment, and you can see that actually, each person had their own plan for their life, and relationships, as a whole. Each of us does this. How do we create this plan and how do we know whether it is the right one? Once they break up, do they keep their plan, only to fail again when they discover that the next person doesn’t fit it either? And if they change their plan, does their future relationship change? Or is it just a different version of the same pattern?

Like everyone, I’ve made many plans in my life; for my career, my romantic life, my travels, my friends – some worked, some didn’t. Actually, now I can see that most of them didn’t. But when I met the Aura, I discovered what my plan should be, how to create it, and how to adapt it; and things have never been the same. It is very exciting.

Thank you for accompanying me on this diary of my journey! :-)”

Enjoy it and if you feel for that, leave us your ideas, suggestions… about the post and/or the blog!!

With love,

Laura

With lots of love and gratitude

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I just want to give the credit that they deserve to the brave family who, no matter what, they are permanently supporting the project Healaura (www.healaura.com), moving it forward and bringing energy and love for us to continue our journey!!

They are the Cooper Family, they are also a non-profit family band (http://vivibemusic.org/) and they are the most amazing people I ever met!! 🙂 If you see them together you can see that there is something special there.

They have created from scratch the project were we have learned how to connect to our auras in a very pure way. With them and with the support of the energy beings that are connected and are supporting this project we are doing a very deep self development work that are helping us to have MUCH BETTER LIFE!!! And, as part of it, we are connecting and discovering our soul plan. No doubts, it is an amazing journey!!!

My life now is richer than ever!!!

With love and lots of gratitude for their dedication, love and support,

Laura

NOTE: in the website of their music you can hear a song in which Mother Earth is giving a message to humans. It is worthwhile to invest some minutes and listen carefully the words. The message is very strong and powerful.

A message from Mother Earth

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One of the amazing things that are happening in my life since I am aligned with my prebirth life plan and learning about how to connect to my aura is that I can channel different sources of the Universe. I ask them for support, I consult them when I need help or clarity and they help me out.

Today I wanted to know how Mother Earth was feeling about this post and if she had something to say about it.

And this is her message:

A Message from Mother Earth

No matter how far you think you are going, if you are not aligned with your soul purpose you will always have the feeling of being lost or not really have found the right place for yourself. You will look around you and your relationships with your kids, your partner, in your work place… will not be as good as you would like.

In the moment you find out about your life purpose and you start working according to it, you start creating the relationships in your life according to it, building your future in this planet according to it, then you will feel you have arrived home. You will not need to take a vacation to rest.

You will live on vacation.

If you remember, during the vacations not everyday is an easy day, but every day you do your best to enjoy. And when the vacation finishes and you look behind, you feel like: “wow, this was worthy it! No matter all the difficulties I am glad I did it!”

How do you want your life to look like?

Like a vacation, worthy to live, were you are free to choose with who, when and how? Or like a long consecutive periods of slavery with some days of freedom in between, let’s call it vacation?

It is your choice.

With all the respect for all creatures in this Planet,

 

Mother Earth channeled by Laura